
Jason Stacy was homeless from age 12 to 15. He learned to read people and stay true to his values. Now he coaches tennis star Aryna Sabalenka. His story is one of resilience and small consistencies.
Jason Stacy, the coach guiding world No. 1 tennis player Aryna Sabalenka, spent his early teens homeless. The survival skills he learned on the streets now help him manage one of the sport's most demanding competitors.
Stacy's father died when he was 11, killed by a blood clot after a motorcycle accident. His mother struggled to care for his two younger siblings. "In my young mind, I thought her life would be easier if I weren't there," Stacy said. He started staying away from home. From age 12 to 15, he was largely homeless.
Those years were violent. He was around drugs constantly but never used them. That often led to fights. "People didn't trust me if I was around drug use, but not indulging," Stacy said. "I was hit, and worse, for not doing drugs."
What kept him going, he said, was a core belief in staying true to his values regardless of the cost. "When I stuck to my values, I could maintain the belief that I didn't belong there," Stacy said. "I figured out how to get out of that awful life because I didn't compromise on my beliefs."
To survive, he had to read people's intentions quickly. He learned to understand what others wanted and whether they were safe. That skill now translates directly into his coaching. Professional athletes are surrounded by people who influence them in various ways, Stacy said. His job is to help Sabalenka identify what she needs in a given moment and surround herself with people who can help her get into the right mindset.
A turning point came when he walked into a martial arts center. There he met a family that became his adoptive family. "At the time, I just knew I needed to be around them and their genuine, good intentions," Stacy said.
There was no single moment when he knew he would be OK. Instead, he took small steps: the dojo, the family, becoming a massage therapist, then a sports trainer. "Small consistencies can lead to big change," he said. He wrote a book called "The Pressure Code: How Elite Performers Align their Energy, Emotions, and Environment."
Stacy said his 15-year-old self would not be surprised that he has created a successful life, but he would be proud. "Being aligned with who I am has served me well then and continues to pay off," Stacy said. "I believe that's true for everyone."
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