
From the pressure to find your passion to spray-and-pray applications, 53% of recruiters review under half of submissions. Career experts offer better strategies.
Turns out your boss might not want the fully authentic you. Leadership consultant Margie Warrell put it bluntly: “If you love wearing tight little leather outfits that are strapped on, I don’t want to see that.”
The whole-self idea is one of several workplace maxims that sound good but often fail in practice. Warrell and other experts pointed to six pieces of stale advice, and what to do instead.
‘Find your passion’
The pressure to discover what you love and turn it into a job can create disappointment. Jochen Menges, a professor at the University of Zurich, said the phrase is “probably as vague as it gets” and offers “not an actionable goal.” He suggested setting goals around an emotion you want to feel at work, like pride. “If I align my emotional needs more with what I do, with my career prospects, then I’m a lot better off,” he said.
Spray-and-pray applications
Applying to as many jobs as possible feels productive but wastes time. A Greenhouse poll of more than 600 recruiters found 53% review fewer than half the applications they receive. Networking inside a target employer often works better, recruiters said. Career coach Laura Labovich advised networking before a job is posted, because once it goes live, “recruiters and hiring managers aren’t likely to do more than point you to it.”
Climbing the corporate ladder
Christian Tröster, a professor at Germany’s Kühne Logistics University, said the hierarchy model is outdated. He recommended a “protean” career that changes shape over time, aiming for “psychological success.” The ultimate goal, he said, is “feeling proud and accomplished.” Warrell noted that flatter structures and AI are eliminating middle management rungs, and a lateral move or portfolio career can be more fulfilling.
Staying at least a year
Warrell said “smart” job changes, even quick ones, that show growing responsibility and new skills can strengthen a résumé. “It can be seen as a sign of ambition, adaptability, not instability,” she said.
Ignoring soft skills
AI is already taking over coding and other technical tasks. Menges said humans will still be needed to evaluate what AI produces, which requires emotion. Workers once suppressed feelings; now “you’ve got to bring those emotions back, because whatever AI does needs evaluation, and that evaluation comes down to how we feel about what appears on our screens,” he said.
Bringing your whole self to work
Georgetown professor Ella F. Washington told Business Insider the better idea is bringing your “whole professional self.” That might mean working with people you dislike or pushing past a bad mood. “If one part of your whole self is that you’re short-tempered and grumpy in the morning, don’t bring that self to work,” Warrell said.
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